Dear Docta-V,
I've always wondered when I would meet that special girl, but I don't think it's going to happen, because I mean all my friends who are girls always say how sweet, and caring I am, but when I tell them that I like them, i'm always seen as just a friend, or a really good friend, I mean I don't know what else to do. Got any suggestions?
Sincerely,
A Beat Listener
Dear Friend in a Glass,
Ladies appreciate a nice guy as a friend and a bad boy as a boyfriend. You have to first understand that balance. I'm not saying you have to be disrespectful but instinctively women like to be hunted... by a man, not a mouse. So my advice is to take the bull by the horns and let the person of your dreams know what your intentions are from the beginning. In other words, don't stand in the shadow like a coward, stand out, go on dates and put yourself out there.. That way you won't be the mouse caught in the "friend trap".
Always,
Docta-V
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