Dear Docta-V,
OK I have a friend I have known for 4 years. We had a relationship in the past but I stopped seeing him n now we have been friends. The thing is that every time i try to get away he just some how pops up. like i move 280miles from San Antonio n guess who fines me my friend.... n now all i want is to be his friend but he can't be friends!!! He keeps telling me whenever you want to go with me and stop making excuses I will be waiting. Here is the catch, we are now married to different peope. He has his wife and kids, I have my hubby who i love dearly and my children! And as of now he is having marriage problems and I have been talking to his wife trying to help her go through this. I have told him i want nothing to do with him but he won't listen, I can't change my number because I need it to stay the same for my hubby! This friend won't leave me alone and I just want to hit him and slap him around and say leave me alone!!! What should i do!??
A Beat Listener
Dear Allow-er,
Girl, go head and slap him!! Just kidding! Honestly, I believe it's time to give him an ultimatum. You've gotta tell this FRIEND that enough is enough and if he cannot respect your boundaries then you're gonna have to get your husband involved. I know that sounds crazy, but it is what it is. I think your friend is only doing what you allow him to do. If you shut him down completely then you should not have anymore problems. Now... If there is a mental issue going on, then the authorities should get involved. Honestly, I think you just have a guy who was never disciplined as a child, so get ready... If he's really your friend, then he will let you go. If not, let your husband open up a good ole fashion can of whoop azz on him!! I'm sure all will be good at that point!
Always,
Docta-V
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